Obituary: Terry Nelson, 81, The Dalles

Terrance John Nelson

Terrance John Nelson was born September 20th, 1942, to Fred and Ella Nelson in Midland Michigan.

He graduated from Northwest School of Agriculture in Crookston Minnesota in 1960 where he met a beautiful classmate named Bette Hovet. Terry and Bette were married on November 30, 1963, and they went on to welcome four children into their lives.

They were known to all have red hair including the family dog Mandy. Family, church and community life were always Terry's highest priorities.

Terry had a career path that started in farming and went on to banking, insurance sales, owning a car dealership, and finally owning Brown Roofing Company. His outgoing personality and charm enabled him to find success in all stages of his career and he enjoyed his work.

Terry was involved with many civic organizations through the years. In recent years he enjoyed helping light the Christmas star with "The Fun Group," being active in his church, traveling, father/son fishing trips to Alaska, golfing, socializing in any form including his Thursday night wine group, poker nights and family gatherings.

He was very proud of his Norwegian roots and helped coordinate the family's annual lefse making day. He and Bette took the entire family on a trip to Norway in 2022 to explore the fjords and their great grandparents’ family farm sites.

Terry is survived by his wife of 60 years Bette, daughter Amy Graham (Pat), son Travis Nelson (Katie), and daughter Holly Nelson. He was blessed with 6 grandchildren: Sam (Alex), Tyler, Erin (Josh), Maddy (Simon), Colton, and Molly and was looking forward to his first great-grandchild who is expected to arrive in August. He adored his sister Barbara Jacobsen who resides in Portland. He was preceded in death by his treasured daughter Bridgette.

Terry was larger than life and will be deeply missed by many. He was a people person who found fun and friends wherever he went. Although he is no longer here his kindness and gift of connecting with people will be remembered with a smile.

There will be a private family service at Bethany Lutheran Church followed by a community Celebration of Life at the Civic Auditorium on June 23 from 2-4 p.m. and all are welcome to attend. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to The Fun Group Christmas Star c/o Tony Foote or Bethany Lutheran Church.